This week was a good reminder that progress isn’t always linear. A few weeks ago, if I were scoring myself across the Big 5, most categories would have landed somewhere between a 4 and a 5.
This week looked a little different. No excuses. Just an honest assessment.
Mindfulness: 2.0
Movement: 2.0 (started the week strong)
Connection: 1.5
Food: 3.0
Sleep: 2.0
It’s a reminder that life has a way of influencing how we live, how we show up, and ultimately how we lead. And some weeks, despite our best intentions, we can find ourselves a little more off track.
What stands out to me isn’t so much the score itself. It’s recognizing that even during the weeks when we find ourselves off track, people are still watching, listening, and looking to us, whether that’s family, friends or colleagues.
It’s a reminder for me to lead from intention, not reaction. Not to let the pace, pressure, or distractions around me influence how I show up for others. We all have off days, off weeks, and times when we find ourselves out of balance. The challenge is making sure those moments don’t define how we show up.
The good news is that awareness creates an opportunity to reset. I plan to use my weekend to do just that.
And a special thank you to those who checked on me this week. You know who you are. #Big5 #Reset #Leadership #SelfAwareness #Mindfulness #Growth #Connection #Resilience
Intentionality
Lately, it’s become clear that consistency is rarely built in the big moments. It’s built in the small choices we make every day. The basics. The habits. The small decisions that seem insignificant on their own but compound over time.
Getting enough rest. Moving when you don’t feel like it. Being intentional with what fuels you. Making time to connect with your tribe, the people who give you energy. Taking a minute to slow down before jumping to a response.
None of these things are particularly complex, but when they start slipping, they tend to show up everywhere else. When you stop and think about it, the way we lead others often starts with how we’re showing up for ourselves.
The fundamentals may not always be exciting, but they have a way of influencing everything that follows.
#Big5 #Mindfulness #Connection #Rest #SelfAwareness #Leadership
Fueling to stay grounded
I’ve been focusing more on the basics this year, trying to stay consistent with the things that keep me grounded. This week, food stood out but in a different way than you might think.
I’ve been experimenting with 72-hour fasts, four so far this year. It’s been an interesting journey. Not just from a physical standpoint, but in how it also shifts your mental awareness at all levels.
You start to realize pretty quickly that eating isn’t always about hunger. A lot of the time it’s routine, convenience, or just filling space during a busy day. At the same time, it’s made me more aware (aka mindful) of everything else: how I’m thinking, how I’m managing my energy, how I’m showing up across the board.
There’s a mental shift that comes with it too, like if you can stay disciplined through something like this, it reinforces that you can set your mind to just about anything. I have watched and felt my energy shift to focusing on sense of accomplishment, sense of confidence, and a better state of mental well-being when the fasts are completed.
I’ve noticed that when you eat with more intention, you feel the difference – more steady, more clear, and more confident. It’s been a good reminder that how you fuel yourself connects to a lot more than just energy, It shows up in how you think, how you respond, and how you lead.
Consistency isn’t just about effort. It’s about how well you’re taking care of what’s behind it. Fueling yourself well on all levels (aka the Big 5) isn’t extra, it’s part of keeping yourself ready for whatever the week throws at you. #nutrition #mentalclarity #confidence #mindful #Big5
Moments that matter
This week moved fast. One of those where you’re just trying to keep pace with everything coming at you.
If I’m being honest, it felt more like the week was running me than me running the week and it showed at a few points along the way. It’s interesting how that happens. You can be doing a lot right, staying disciplined in most areas, and still feel the impact when a couple things aren’t fully there.
I could see that in a few moments in how I responded and how the pace of the week was driving me instead of the other way around. In leadership, those are the moments that matter most.
Just a nudge to slow down a bit when needed and take the time to get back to center. #mindfulness #connection #movement #nutrition #sleep
Rest … Relax … Restore
I’ve been working to stay consistent with the Big 5: Mindfulness, Movement, Connection, Food, and Sleep.
This week, Sleep stood out.
It’s one of those things that’s easy to trade off when things get busy, get a little more done, stay up later, push through. In the moment, it feels manageable…even more productive.
But over time, it shows up. Less patience. Slower decisions. More reactive.
This past week felt a bit over the top at times, and I caught myself in a few of those moments trying to push through but not showing up at my best.
A good reminder that recovery matters just as much as effort. Because leadership isn’t just, or always about doing more or working long hours. It’s about knowing when to recharge and making sure you have the energy to show up consistently. #Sleep #Rest #Relax #Restore
All about moving
Each week, one of the Big 5: Mindfulness, Movement, Connection, Food, and Sleep, tends to rise to the surface and teach me something new. This week, Movement was the one asking for my attention, in both the physical and professional sense.
Lately I’ve been paying attention to how I move through my days both literally and professionally. And if I’m honest, the last couple of weeks haven’t been my strongest when it comes to physical movement. I’ve been aware of it, but I haven’t consistently made space for a walk, a workout, or even a quick reset between meetings.
What’s interesting is how quickly that lack of movement shows up elsewhere: lower energy, less clarity, a little more friction in the day. It also reminds me that movement isn’t just about exercise. It’s about momentum. It’s about intention. It’s about choosing to move even when the calendar feels full.
A few things stand out:
Small steps matter more than perfect routines
Physical movement fuels professional movement
And sometimes the hardest part is simply breaking the cycle
In leadership, movement isn’t measured by speed. It’s measured by how intentionally we guide ourselves and our teams forward even in the weeks when we’re not at our best. A good reminder that progress often starts with one small step. #movement
Mindfulness
Over the last year, I’ve directionally anchored both my work and personal life around the Big 5: Mindfulness, Movement, Connection, Food, and Sleep. This week, Mindfulness stood out … mostly because I drifted from it more than I’d like to admit.
There were a few moments where I caught myself reacting instead of responding. Moving too quickly. Missing the pause. And in those moments, it became very clear how easy it is, even with the best intentions, to lose alignment.
What this week reinforced for me is this:
Mindfulness isn’t something you “achieve” once and carry forward. It’s something you practice daily, hourly, sometimes by the minute. Especially as leaders, the pause matters. The breath before responding matters. The awareness of how we show up for our teams, our peers, and ourselves matters.
The takeaway for me this week:
Execution is important, but how we show up while executing is what truly defines our impact. A good reminder that leadership isn’t just about moving things forward it’s about staying grounded while you do. #mindfulness
Introduction to the Big 5
I’ve centered much of the last 12 months around the Big 5: Mindfulness, Movement, Connection, Food, and Sleep. I’ve been thinking a lot about what connection means. What I realize is that it’s not just about growing a network. It’s about building relationships that actually matter – whether it’s a good conversation, a shared idea, or even a small moment of support can go a long way. Grateful for the people, near and far, who make the journey more meaningful. #connection
Celebrating October
Day 1
Celebrating October
October Reflections
Life is not a constant. It changed forever this past year. As I look back, I can see life, love, laughter, and connection were at the heart of it. My old soul reminds me every day to celebrate. Some days easier than others. In that spirit, I am going to share 17 days of what brings me joy as #destination55 nears.
Day 1: I love new traditions. My mom, brother and I start each day with a good morning text and end each day the same. #octoberreflections#celebrateoctober#life#love#laughter
Re-imagine
Create. Important moments. Spaces – Home. Life. Family. Social. Self-love. Adventures. Alignment of your ideal life, where there are no regrets. This past year has transformed nearly every aspect of our world – home, life, family, work, and social. Coming out of the pandemic is the perfect time to re-imagine. Re-imagine what’s important. Re-imagine spaces. Re-imagine happy. Re-imagine what fills your bucket. No one said it would be easy. There will be good days. There will be not so good days. That’s okay. It is about building life by design. A Day in the Life. It’s a new world. Get out and find it.
Re-Imagine. Create. Find. Opportunities to #liveyourbestlife.

